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5.29.2011

feeling otherworldly today



"Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught."





"I have a friend request from some stranger on Facebook and I delete it without looking at the profile because that doesn’t seem natural. ‘Cause friendship should not be as easy as that. It’s like people believe all you need to do is like the same bands in order to be soul mates. Or books. omg… U like the outsiders 2… it’s like we’re the same person! No we’re not. It’s like we have the same English teacher. There’s a difference." - David Levithan





"Every fall into love involves the triumph of hope over self-knowledge. We fall in love hoping we won’t find in another what we know is in ourselves, all the cowardice, weakness, laziness, dishonesty, compromise, and stupidity. We throw a cordon of love around the chosen one and decide that everything within it will somehow be free of our faults. We locate inside another a perfection that eludes us within ourselves, and through our union with the beloved hope to maintain (against the evidence of all self-knowledge) a precarious faith in our species." - On Love by Alain de Botton





"…In real life I always seem to have a hard time winding up a conversation or asking somebody to leave, and sometimes the moment becomes so delicate and fraught with social complexity that I’ll get overwhelmed trying to sort out all the different possible ways of saying it and all the different implications of each option and will just sort of blank out and do it totally straight — ‘I want to terminate the conversation and not have you be in my apartment anymore’ — which evidently makes me look either as if I’m very rude and abrupt or as if I’m semi-autistic and have no sense of how to wind up a conversation gracefully…I’ve actually lost friends this way." - Consider the Lobster: and Other Essays by David Foster Wallace





"Damaged people are dangerous. They know they can survive." - Josephine Hart




"Leave an extrovert alone for two minutes and he will reach for his cell phone. In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially “on,” we introverts need to turn off and recharge. My own formula is roughly two hours alone for every hour of socializing. This isn’t antisocial. It isn’t a sign of depression. It does not call for medication. For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating." - Jonathan Rauch




This is fucking brilliant.



"The most important things are the hardest things to say. They are the things you get ashamed of, because words diminish them - words shrink things that seemed limitless when they were in your head to no more than living size when they’re brought out. But it’s more than that, isn’t it? The most important things lie too close to wherever your secret heart is buried, like landmarks to a treasure your enemies would love to steal away. And you may make revelations that cost you dearly only to have people look at you in a funny way, not understanding what you’ve said at all, or why you thought it was so important that you almost cried while you were saying it. That’s the worst, I think. When the secret stays locked within not for want of a teller but for want of an understanding ear." - Stephen King





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“Erna and Hrefna are eleven-year-old identical twins from Iceland. I started to photograph them when they were nine years old in 2009, and this will be an ongoing project until they are sixteen years old. I will visit them every year. My intention for this project is to capture the very precious period of their growth from child to teenager, physically as well as psychologically. The relationship between identical twins is an interesting subject matter. I often hear that identical twins have telepathic connections. This is true of Erna and Hrefna. They are always together. They almost never fight with each other. Spending time with them, I feel such comfort in their companionship but at the same time I feel strange because I have never seen such a powerful connection between any two human beings. They say to me, ‘From time to time, we dream the same dreams.’”



THIS RING MAKES ME HAVE AN ANXIETY ATTACK,

WANT WANT WANT WANT WANT WANT!!!



"There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I’m going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts." - Elizabeth Gilbert





I have been watching Ancient Aliens alllllll day and then this photo found me.

Obbbbbviously the aliens built the pyramids.


"But while you were busy destroying my life, what was half in me has become whole."
- Poe, “Control”






"Alas! Alas! Alas! I love a girl who has a very pretty neck, very pretty breasts, a very pretty voice, very pretty wrists, a very pretty forehead, very pretty knees… but who is a coward."
- Michel Poiccard, Breathless






"I keep thinking about this river somewhere, with the water moving really fast. And these two people in the water, trying to hold onto each other, holding on as hard as they can, but in the end it’s just too much. The current’s too strong. They’ve got to let go, drift apart. That’s how I think It is with us. It’s a shame because we’ve loved each other all our lives.
But in the end, we can’t stay together forever."
- Kazuo Ishiguro, Never Let Me Go






"Here’s one of the things I learned that morning: if you cross a line and nothing happens, the line loses meaning. It’s like that old riddle about a tree falling in a forest, and whether it makes a sound if there’s no one around to hear it. You keep drawing a line farther and farther away, crossing it every time. That’s how people end up stepping off the edge of the earth. You’d be surprised at how easy it is to bust out of orbit, to spin out to a place where no one can touch you. To lose yourself—to get lost. Or maybe you wouldn’t be surprised. Maybe some of you already know. To those people, I can only say: I’m sorry."
- Before I Fall by Lauren Oliver






"What’s the world’s greatest lie?” the boy asked, completely surprised.
“It’s this: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what’s happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate. That’s the world’s greatest lie." - The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho






"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and to endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson






'For serious, the world is gone wrong when we dance to fire alarms. Fire alarms don’t mean fires anymore. If there were a real fire, they’d just have somebody with a nice voice announce, “Buick station wagon, license number BRK 773, your lights are on.” In the event of a real nuclear attack, they’d just shout, “Phone call at the bar for Austin Letterman. Phone call for Austin Letterman.” The world won’t end with a whimper or a bang, but with a discreet, tasteful announcement: “Bill Rivervale, phone call holding, line two.” Then, nothing.' - Choke by Chuck Palahniuk






"I know how difficult it can be when the image you’ve had of something doesn’t match its reality; when the friend beside you turns into a monster." - Nineteen Minutes by Jodi Picoult






"You can boil your life down to a single suitcase, if you desperately have to. Ask yourself what you really need, and it won’t be what you imagine- you will easily toss aside unfinished work, and bills, and your daily calender to make room for the pair of flannel pajamas you wear when it rains; and the stone your child gave you that is shaped like a heart; and the battered paperback you revisit every April, because it was what you were reading the first time you fell in love. It turns out that what’s important is not everything that you’ve accumulated all these years, but those few things you can carry with you." - Vanishing Acts by Jodi Picoult







YOUR BEAUTY IS NOT WIRTH THEIR PAIN!!!!!!


This is a picture of an Animal Testing Facility.


The reason they use rabbits for animal testing is because they are the only animal who can not flush chemicals out of their eyes without using aids like water or their paws.


Next time you buy cosmetics or hair spray or anything in the beauty section -

choose the brands that are NOT tested on animals.


Here’s a hint: Loreal are the worlds biggest cosmetic animal testers,

and Garnier is a sub-company of Loreal.


If you have trouble finding out who tests on animals and who doesn’t,

Google is at your fingertips.


The look on the bunnies face second from the right is absolutely heartbreaking.




"Nobody on the outside, no, not even God himself, knows what a man suffers on the inside. There’s no language to convey it. It’s beyond all human comprehension. It’s so vast, so wide, so deep that even the angels with all their powers of understanding and all their powers of locomotion could never explore the whole of it." - Henry Miller




MAJOR. EYEBROW. ENVY.

the new early 90's Saved By The Bell lookin' Jeffrey Campbells